how to shoot someone who outdraws you

Every once in awhile, perhaps every few months, the communication between ExA and i becomes less stilted, less guarded and that is when she chooses to strike.


A year and a half ago, after a particularly fine exchange over e-mail, she decided to ask me for a portrait of her and the Land that i had taken in the divorce. The portrait was one that she had done for my birthday, so i felt as though it had been given to me. Because of a matching one of her and The Sea, she felt as though i did not have a right to it- she accused me of being unhealthy because i wanted it.


This past week she contacted me because she needs my signature on her refi (i am still listed as on the mortgage). After i assured her that i would assist in her getting whatever she needed, minutes later i received an e-mail invitation to her and Fortunato's 40th birthday party.


i saw it as thoughtless. i am sure she sees it as progress.